Individualism Breaks Large Families

Updated: 2025.09.07 1M ago 2 sources
The author argues that when each child is empowered to define their own moral code, parents cannot sustain coherent rules across multiple kids. A therapy‑inflected culture that encourages severing ties over perceived harms puts secular parents into a religion‑like dilemma: keep family norms or follow the dissenter. — If true, therapeutic individualism may erode family cohesion and suppress higher‑order fertility, with knock‑on effects for social policy and demography.

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Eat, Pray, Leave
Kay S. Hymowitz 2025.09.07 66% relevant
It frames 'radical self‑love' divorce and therapeutic self‑actualization as norms that undermine marital stability and family formation, echoing the claim that hyper‑individualist scripts erode the shared rules that sustain families.
Keeping my religion
Tove K 2025.04.26 100% relevant
A mother of six recounts refusing to 'pursue' a 15‑year‑old who left home amid abuse accusations and hunger‑strike threats, framing her stance as 'keeping my religion'—prioritizing family rules over therapy‑culture demands.
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