Recency Over Count in Mate Choice

Updated: 2025.10.01 20D ago 2 sources
Across countries, people care less about the total number of past partners than about when those partners were accumulated and whether the pace is tapering. A slowing trajectory signals lower future risk, while recent, fast accrual raises concern. This reframes 'body count' from a crude tally to a timeline‑sensitive signal. — It challenges viral dating narratives by replacing a stigmatizing headline metric with behaviorally grounded, time‑aware criteria that travel across cultures.

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Intelligence Isn't Really Sexy
Davide Piffer 2025.10.01 45% relevant
Both pieces argue for replacing folk metrics with empirically grounded signals in mate choice. Here, controlled speed‑dating and app experiments show displayed intelligence (even a verified IQ) has a much smaller effect than physical attractiveness, refining what actually drives swiping/selection.
Beyond Body Count: How Many Past Partners Are Too Many?
Steve Stewart-Williams 2025.08.16 100% relevant
Scientific Reports study led by Andrew Thomas with Steve Stewart‑Williams reports timing and deceleration of past partners predict judgments more than totals.
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