The author ties male formlessness to the disappearance of communal rites—danger, shame, victory, and 'keeping score' together—arguing that sports are a thin remnant without elders and organic community. Algorithmic micro‑clips and parasocial figures can’t substitute for shared trials that confer status and adulthood.
— If a lack of real rites, not just economics, underlies male stagnation, policy should target institutions that stage structured challenge (teams, service, apprenticeships) rather than only rhetoric about norms.
Matthew Gasda
2025.08.20
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Gasda’s line that 'tradition has been replaced by representation' and his use of David Gilmore’s cross‑cultural account of manhood rituals to explain contemporary U.S. drift.
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