Tears as Social Signaling Technology

Updated: 2025.08.30 1M ago 4 sources
Emotional tears may have evolved to trigger help or restraint from others and to signal what the crier values. This reframes crying as a strategic social cue, not just a byproduct of strong feelings. — It offers an evolutionary lens on emotional expression that can inform debates about persuasion, authenticity, and norms in public and online life.

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Does Alcohol Build Social Bonds?
Steve Sailer 2025.08.30 50% relevant
Both pieces frame human behaviors as evolved social technologies that coordinate help and cooperation; here, alcohol‑centered feasting is linked to alliance‑building and labor mobilization across 186 societies, analogous to tears functioning as strategic social cues.
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Rob Henderson 2025.08.19 70% relevant
The newsletter links to Daniel Sznycer and Debra Lieberman’s piece on 'the hidden calculations that determine whether you will cry,' which aligns with the evolutionary-signaling frame that tears function to elicit help and restraint.
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Daniel Sznycer and colleagues’ paper on the adaptive function of emotional tearing.
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