Venting as Polite Aggression

Updated: 2025.08.19 2M ago 1 sources
A cited study suggests 'venting' often functions as a reputational mask that lets people say mean things without seeming mean. Rather than releasing 'steam,' it’s a strategy to attack rivals while claiming emotional hygiene. — If venting is socially sanctioned aggression, HR policies, online moderation, and therapeutic advice that encourage 'venting' may be legitimizing covert hostility rather than reducing conflict.

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Bullshit Links - August 2025
David Pinsof 2025.08.19 100% relevant
Pinsof writes that a 'cool new study' finds venting is a clever way to insult rivals without looking mean and notes evidence that venting doesn’t reduce anger.
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